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Bio 2. Longer version

Pip grew up in rural Australia where he fell in love with the landscape at an early age. He began his working life as a P.E. teacher specializing in outdoor education. Later he continued his work with youth and adults via an adventure company which he ran with his wife. They taught windsurfing from their coastal farm base, river trips and cross country skiing from their ski lodge in Jindabyne.

When his marriage ended, Pip devastated by the loss of his relationship, realized that though he was successful in the material world he had done little inner work. He traveled to the United States to attend numerous relationship skills seminars and workshops. Through his learning and coming to terms with his family history, Pip began to understand the terrible impact caused by male socialization. At the same time, he also witnessed other men stepping out of the mould and changing. He experienced the healing potential of men and women speaking their truth about troublesome issues and consequently moving beyond a position of blame.

While continuing his studies, Pip maintained his love of the outdoors by teaching skiing and rafting in Northern California. Concerned by Columbine, other school shootings and increasing teen violence, he began to study ways in which young people could acquire skills to resolve conflicts peacefully and live more positive lives.

Over the years, Pip has worked with teens and pre-teens in a variety of settings. In the Oregon school system, Pip has taught and established peer mediations. In the San Francisco Bay Area, he assisted ‘Challenge Days’ with high school and college teens including teenage gang members. In the California Shasta Mountain Ranges, Pip co-facilitated rights of passage for teenagers and on the Klamath River he worked on raft adventures for troubled youth and young leaders for social change.

More recently, Pip has been working with the Australian Sports Commission (ASC) to address issues around harassment and abuse in sports. His workshops for Olympic athletes within the ASC have been highly successful. His programs have received favorable publicity on ABC radio stations across Australia. Pip’s workshops in Australia and the United States focus on male gender issues including violence and sexual assault prevention. Pip successfully uses conferences* to resolve existing harassment and gender related disputes, including gender reconciliation.

Pip is a conference* convenor with the NSW department of Juvenile Justice in their widely acclaimed restorative justice programs. He actively promotes conferences for resolving disputes in the workplace, schools and communities and teaches yoga, meditation and stress reduction in Australia and the US.

Pip stresses communication skills as the main tool for building partnership and foundation of his work. His groundbreaking positive and ethical communications workshops are a synthesis of the many communication modalities he has studied and taught.

The most striking features of Pip’s work arise from the fact that he is much more than a theorist; he has been in the place where many men are stuck today. He has paid the price for his masculinization; he has been abusive, he has hurt the people he loved and has struggled to change himself. Not surprisingly his workshops and seminars are conducted from a place of care and compassion for men who are similarly ensnared. Consequently his sessions have the potential to help participants make significant and lasting changes.

His message is one of hope and inspiration. There is nothing inherently wrong with men! It is not men’s fault that so much violence exists in our world; we’ve been socialized to be that way in order to perpetrate the dominator model. However we bear the consequences of our male socialization such as ruined marriages, shallow relationships with our children and friends, high suicide rates and innumerable addictions. As we do our healing work we are helping not just ourselves but the whole world to heal; to become less violent. As he points out, “When you see men/boys, father/sons, gang- kids, men in prison, or mixed gender groups drop their masks and speak from their truth, there is not a dry eye in the room; at these times we experience the beauty that lives inside all of us and the future seems very hopeful.”

*Conferencing (A facilitated large group collaborative mediation process)


Pip Cornall
USA 541 535 6546
Australia 612 8230 0754



Bio 1. Short Version