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Much has been written about the influence of media in the shaping of current hyper-masculinities. In primal societies the morality, tribal ethics, codes of behaviour, masculine and feminine norms were promoted through stories and myths. Today’s media is our equivalent story teller and myth weaver. Numerous studies point to the ways media shapes contemporary masculinities noting that children have seen thousands of TV murders and acts of violence at an early age. Then there is the wrestling (WWE) watched by up to 40 million Americans each week as ‘entertainment.’ Click here for in depth survey about WWE.

Jackson Katz and Sut Jhally have produced a group of excellent videos (see below) which can be used by schools, universities and community groups to show boys and men viable positive alternatives to negative media hyper-masculinities. We must remember that men/boys have been socialized in the dominator model which systematically trains us to be insensitive to high levels of violence including sexual assault. The media is a primary tool to this end.
I trained with Jackson in the 90’s and he inspired me to deepen my work with men and boys to reduce violence against women. The safety and equity of women is a vital indicator of the extent to which a society embraces the partnership model and supports the development of human rights.
Eisler states:

The Nordic Nations are closer to this model than most. The gaps between rich and poor are less, women play important leadership roles, constituting approximately 40 percent of legislatures, stereotypically feminine traits and activities such as nurturance, nonviolence, and care giving are considered appropriate for men as well as women. The people of these societies are supported by fiscal policies such as funding for universal health care, elder care, childcare allowances, paid parental leave, peace studies, and environmental protection. And these nations are regularly at the top of the UN national quality-of-life charts.

Jackson Katz is the founder and director of MVP Strategies, an organization that provides gender violence prevention training and materials to U.S. colleges, high schools, law enforcement agencies, the U.S. military services, community organizations, and small and large corporations.
He is the creator of an award-winning videos for college and high school students. These include Tough Guise: Violence, Media, and the Crisis in Masculinity (2000); Wrestling With Manhood, with Sut Jhally,(2002); and Spin the Bottle: Sex, Lies, and Alcohol, with Jean Kilbourne, (2004). These videos - with accompanying study guides - are available from the Media Education Foundation.
In 1993 he co-created the Mentors in Violence Prevention (MVP) Program at Northeastern University's Center for the Study of Sport in Society.

Katz says:
The issue is not just violence in the media but the construction of violent
masculinity as a cultural norm. From rock and rap music and videos,
Hollywood action films, professional and college sports, the culture
produces a stream of images of violent, abusive men and promotes
characteristics such as dominance, power, and control as means of
establishing or maintaining manhood.

Consider professional wrestling, with its mixing of sports and entertainment and its glamorization of the culture of dominance. It represents, in a microcosm, the broader cultural environment in which boys mature. Some of the core values of the wrestling subculture - dominant displays of power and control, ridicule of lesser opponents, respect equated with physical fear and deference - are factors in the social system of Columbine High, where the shooters were ridiculed, marginalized, harassed, and bullied.

These same values infuse the Hollywood action-adventure genre that is so popular with boys and young men. In numerous films starring iconic
hyper-masculine figures like Arnold Schwarzenegger, Sylvester Stallone,
Wesley Snipes, Bruce Willis, and Mel Gibson, the cartoonish story lines
convey the message that masculine power is embodied in muscle, firepower, and physical authority.

Numerous other media targeting boys convey similar themes. Thrash metal and gangsta rap, both popular among suburban white males, often express boys' angst and anger at personal problems and social injustice, with a call to violence to redress the grievances. The male sports culture features regular displays of dominance and one-upsmanship, as when a basketball player dunks ''in your face,'' or a defensive end sacks a quarterback, lingers over his fallen adversary, and then, in a scene
reminiscent of ancient Rome, struts around to a stadium full of cheering
fans.

How do you respond if you are being victimized by this dominant system of masculinity? The lessons from Columbine High - a typical suburban
''jockocracy,'' where the dominant male athletes did not hide their disdain
for those who did not fit in - are pretty clear. The 17- and 18-year-old
shooters, tired of being ridiculed or marginalized, weren't big and strong
and so they used the great equalizer: weapons. Any discussion about guns in our society needs to include a discussion of their function as equalizers. In Littleton, the availability of weapons gave the shooters the opportunity to exact a twisted and tragic revenge: 15 dead, including themselves, and 23 wounded.

What this case reinforces is our crying need for a national conversation
about what it means to be a man, since cultural definitions of manhood and masculinity are ever-shifting and are particularly volatile in the
contemporary era.
Such a discussion must examine the mass media in which boys (and girls) are immersed, including violent, interactive video games, but also mass media as part of a larger cultural environment that helps to shape the masculine identities of young boys in ways that equate strength in males with power and the ability to instill fear - fear in other males as well as in females.

But the way in which we neuter these discussions makes it hard to frame such questions, for there is a wrong way and a right way of asking them. The wrong way: '' Did the media (video games, Marilyn Manson, `The Basketball Diaries') make them do it?'' One of the few things that we know for certain after 50 years of sustained research on these issues is that behavior is too complex a phenomenon to pin down to exposure to individual and isolated media messages. The evidence strongly supports that behavior is linked to attitudes and attitudes are formed in a much more complex cultural environment.

The right way to ask the question is: '' How does the cultural environment,
including media images, contribute to definitions of manhood that are picked up by adolescents?'' Or, '' How does repeated exposure to violent
masculinity normalize and naturalize this violence?''

There may indeed be no simple explanation as to why certain boys in
particular circumstances act out in violent, sometimes lethal, ways. But
leaving aside the specifics of this latest case, the fact that the
overwhelming majority of such violence is perpetrated by males suggests that part of the answer lies in how we define such intertwined concepts as
''respect,'' ''power'' and ''manhood.'' When you add on the easy
accessibility of guns and other weapons, you have all the ingredients for
the next deadly attack.

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