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3. Understanding Masculinity

Since masculinity (not maleness) is not innately biological, it can be changed to a more positive model. The

• What we call masculinity is constructed, varies from culture to culture and changes throughout history. Today the mass media is a primary force in constructing masculinity and masculine ideals (Katz & Jhally, 1999).

• Femininity and masculinity are not biological essences but cultural creations (Donaldson, 1993; Gilmore, 1990; Kaufman, 1995), concepts which are socially constructed rather than biologically determined. The social construct of masculinity embodies currently accepted norms, values and behaviors for males, in essence, models or scripts for masculinity.

• The socializing occurs first in the family often unintentionally by well-meaning parents and continues when the child goes to school. Later socializing occurs with young adults in such diverse peer groups such as sports, military, colleges and the workplace.

• “The dominant (hegemonic) form of masculinity has been, and continues to be in some quarters, the primary social construct of dominator societies or of dominator belief systems operating within existing democracies. In short, the problem in dominator societies is not men. It is rather the way male identity must be defined in male-dominant societies where, by definition, "masculinity" is equated with domination and conquest -- be it of women, other men, or nature.” (Eisler 1987)

• “To maintain dominator style societies, boys must be systematically socialized for domination and, therefore, for violence. Male violence has to be idealized - as seen in much of our normative literature celebrating violent "heroes;" for example, the Biblical King David, the Homeric Ulysses, and modern "he-men" such as Rambo. Indeed, in these societies violent behavior patterns are systematically taught to males from early childhood through toys like swords, guns, and violent video games, while only girls are systematically socialized for nurturing, compassion, and caring.” ( Eisler)

• Consequently the hegemonic masculinity promotes philosophies, values and behaviors that harm women, children, other men and the biosphere.

• This form of masculinity is incompatible with true democracy and human rights.

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